I read somewhere recently that nearly 75% of blogs start with the phrase "I'm sorry I haven't posted in so long". Huh, ours is no different. You'll notice that the blog has been quiet, we haven't tweeted in a couple of weeks (but maybe that's because when the kids find out we have Twitter they look at us and roll their eyes, "Re-ally??"). We've been focusing on getting our week to week stuff up and running these past couple of weeks. Last week we resumed "Soul Food", our weekly dinner and discussion group. We had 6 youth out, which was good for our first week, and it ensured them a good feed of tacos (which have quickly become a Soul Food favorite).
This year, we're really excited about our discussion material. Maybe a bit more so than usual, because this particular stuff seems to stick. We have begun using the Habitudes material to guide our discussions. In a nutshell, it uses images to talk about self-leadership characteristics. We've used bits and pieces of this material in our Project Serve training, and it is one of the few things that the youth remember and talk about. Last week we looked at the image of an iceberg, and talked about the fact that 90% of an iceberg sits below the water. Where we can't see it. Then we bridged into a discussion about our outer characteristics and our inner characteristics. Which are more important? Which do we spend more time and resources on? And so, in the coming weeks, we will be sharing the story of the golden Buddha, examining whether we just reflect the culture around us (like a thermometer) or whether we influence it (like a thermostat), and ten other images. It's also exciting because it is faith-based material that also has a value-based companion, so there is potential to use some of this material in our partnerships with the schools too. The youth are engaged when we talk about these images, and the images seem to stick.
So that's a bit of what we've been up to. Hopefully I don't start my next post with, "I'm sorry I haven't posted in so long..." At least you know I have a good excuse!
I've written before about our ministry of walking through the darkness with our youth, or as we sometimes refer to it "place-sharing".This is, in my mind, what makes The Door Youth Centre an exciting and a slightly terrifying place all at the same time. This weekend was another one of "those" weekends, where it seemed like everyone who came through our doors had something weighing heavy on their minds and hearts.
There's one guy that we've been working with for at least three years now. He's a pretty cool guy, loves taking photos, and enjoys subjecting others to the "stupid test" on his ipod. Our relationship with him started when he was just entering high school, and we've walked with him through most of his life since then. The past year hasn't been easy on our friend. Things at home aren't always going well, and he holds a lot of resentment towards his single mom and sister. He's got an on again off again relationship with a girl (it's off again) that has been going on for a lot longer than most relationships but has moments of deep love and concern as well as those of conflict. In the past six months, we've seen this easy going kid begin to deal with addiction in his life, withdrawl from his peers, growing distance in our once close relationship, and a growing darkness in his whole being. This once bright light is now dimmed by anger, and hopelessness.
This weekend, his disposition and an incident that he had with another of our youth made me angry. I was angry at this young man for about thirty seconds, thinking "How the heck could he treat someone that he cares about this way? Why is he doing this?", and feeling confused and lost about how we could reach out to him. But very quickly my anger towards him changed, and I became angry at the people or circumstances that have caused him to react this way.
This is a young man with great potential. He didn't have great potential and lose it, he still has it. In our work with him from this point, we will be relying on God's leading to help draw some of those strengths out of him so that he can cope without substances, without cutting himself, without pushing those who care about him away - or whatever his deal may be. We know that God is able to redeem all of the dark areas in his life, even when we feel confused about why a young person has walked away. This is why we need people to come alongside youth at The Door, because working this stuff out alone is difficult alone. We all need somebody, and while we may be on a journey with this young guy for a good long while, we will always be here when he needs us. It's there...somewhere.
This was done by one of our young men who has been with us for a few years now. He'd never done anything like this, and really put a lot of thought into what he wanted it to say. 
Just a demo piece I did to show some technique.
This guy was really shocked that he was at The Door and was allowed to spray paint. He said to one of our guys while they were painting, "I never thought I'd be doing this here with you". We're trying to encourage our youth that graffiti is a viable form of art, that doesn't need to be vandalism.
The young woman who did this is hard of hearing. She paintedthe sign language for love on the right hand side. She has just started college this year to become an interpreter.
A demo piece done by Aaron.
The young guy who did this piece also did the very last one. He loves BMX and skate culture, so this is a natural art expression for him.
This was a collaborative piece, that Aaron worked on with a couple of our guys.
Again, done by the guy who did the "Hello My Name Is" piece. At first, I thought he was a little out there in using the can so close, but I have to admit that the dripping paint is my favorite part.
